mollycat, Canary, & smilanatu--I knew I wasn't lucky enough to have remembered everyone! So sorry! Hope you're all doing well. Canary, hope your wrong about AF! Wish I could answer your question on how long it will take to conceive--I'm asking the same question myself! I only had 1 cycle since ttc, so I'm also feeling very impatient & sorry for myself! My DF likes to avoid the subject as well, he just doesn't know what to say. I can understand that, and since I've met everyone here, I'm actually ok with him avoiding the subject! No exploding women here, please, whine ( I don't like that word--you're not whining, you're venting!) as much as you need to--it helps to heal the heart. Take care!