I'm sorry to come off sounding like a complete tragedy queen, but we just got word that my maternal grandfather (who lives in a nursing home) has taken a decline recently. He could go either way at this point. But we're still not over grieving FIL, so we're pretty overwhelmed.

It seems that most of the time our life rocks along status quo with very little going on, but then when it rains it pours.

Then when I went to the YMCA to sign up wee DD for drop in care, they looked at me like I had just landed from Mars and said they didn't have any such program. So I explained I talked to some lady on the phone who said yes they did. So the receptionist went to talk to her boss, who said they USED to have a drop in program until some lady left her kid to go shopping, then couldn't be reached when they had some emergency. (Why does it always take one incident like that to mess things up for everybody else?????)

So I went and had a good cry in my minivan, then headed home to my phone directory and proceeded to call every day care center in a five mile radius (quite a few here, we have some major corporations around). And found three that have drop in programs. So I made three appointments for tomorrow to tour facilities etc. I'm thinking I'll register her in all three in case one gets full on a day I need it, I'll have a back up plan.

but your posts brought a smile to my face which I really needed and am grateful for.

mollycat: Oh. I thought those were fertility words I never heard of, LOL

Angel Babies: your post brought up images of swimming lessons for sperm with little tiny lifeguards with whistles and...tell me to shut up whenever you wish...
but serious.y, I'm glad your husband's in on this with you.

AJC: clomid worked wonderfully for me and I hope you have as good luck.