Tina - I am so sorry for your loss. I had the same feeling of loneliness after my m/c, still do, and it must be even worse in a new city. This forum helped me a lot, I hope you can feel a bit less lonely with the ladies here.

PLC - I would not wait either. I kind of feel the same like AngelBabies, that I may run out of months. I do not know what your reason for m/c was, but for me it was probably a bad egg, so I was thinking, what if I wait, and this will be the one month with the good egg? I would not wait at all, but the first month I O after m/c I was away from my DH during O anyway, so I agreed to wait and run some tests. Now AF is supposed to be here in about 3 days, and it will be my first month TTC.