TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 08 #2

[mollycat]

CONGRATULATIONS TO NATTY AND TO MAGDA Wishing for the best christmas present possible for your families.

OK everyone that's two down, how many more can we achieve in the next few weeks.

Angelbabies - When your ready, come back and join us, just don't forget to pop in occasionally and straighten us out. You've really got a positive outlook on life, and you're right TTC does take a strain on any relationship, although I believe it does make our relationships stronger, so hopefully it won't be long before you get a to add to your family.


It's been a while since i posted so i'll give you an update - firstly my car was supposed to be back from the smash repairers last week (unfortunately that was delayed) so, it looks as though i'll have it back tomorrow. I had it for 9 days, they've had it for 34 days, maybe i should get them to make the next repayment!!!sad huh.
i've just come back from my gyno - he still prefers if we go through IVF - although we don't feel that is for us as we already have two sons and if can't have another baby (the other way), we'll just resign ourselves to that's it. So, i've told him no IVF, he sent me for a million blood tests (about nine vials later), a lot of them related to the m/c. he commented that he wished he'd known about the m/c cause he would have ordered other tests at the time (he was the last person we were thinking about at the time). Also increased dosage of metformin and we're going to try tamoxifen - has anyone tried this? as clomid doesn't seem to make a difference, although i am ovulating.

[Baby Angels]

Huge Huge Huge Congrats. I love it when people come in here and seem to go just as quickly.... Not that I want you to go but you know what I mean.... Not TTC anymore.... BFP instead.

All the best over the next few weeks.... our hearts and prays go out to you

As for me.... Well I m not going anywhere. I have decided I am still officially TTC. So therefore I can still come in here..... I just dont know when the official TTC as in conception will be..... For me now its step one... build on relationship.... then worry about sperms and eggs. (who knows... by then DH s might have learnt how to swim) So i m still going to be here to watch everyones progress.... to check up on how all the big fat tummys are going, bake cyber cakes, smack hands for negative thoughts and generally keep an eye on everyone.