TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ March 08 #2

[Katiegirl]

Congrats to Natty and Magda - 2 BFPs in one day! How wonderful. Here is some stick vibes for you both

Good luck to everyone on the 2WW - I hope it is not too agonising and passes quickly.

I am starting to feel that maybe this baby has a chance - and yes I am due November.

[Natty]

Magda - congratulations!! Thats wonderful news! Wishing both of us Its both scarey and exciting isnt it?! My AF is/was due either Sunday or Monday. So by all accounts it will be due early December. A Christmas baby for us both!

Katiesgirl - thanks for your congrats. And lots of to you too. Does that make you about eight weeks?

Jodsan - I am so sorry hun. I was so hoping that you were going to get a BFP. You had all the good signs. It will happen soon for you, I can feel it.

Natty

[Jodsan]

Magda, congratulations x 2, wow, mummy and a (young) gradma!! My mum was 37 when my brother made her a grandma! Hope it all goes well, I'm sending you heaps of

Yey, 2 BFP's in one day, has cheered me up already!

Thanks Natty, I'll hav a good chat with my doc, I'm sure she'll sort me out. She didn't conceive her 1st until 39 and I haven't seen her for a while so she may even be going through the same problem trying to conceive a second.

[mollycat]

CONGRATULATIONS TO NATTY AND TO MAGDA Wishing for the best christmas present possible for your families.

OK everyone that's two down, how many more can we achieve in the next few weeks.

Angelbabies - When your ready, come back and join us, just don't forget to pop in occasionally and straighten us out. You've really got a positive outlook on life, and you're right TTC does take a strain on any relationship, although I believe it does make our relationships stronger, so hopefully it won't be long before you get a to add to your family.


It's been a while since i posted so i'll give you an update - firstly my car was supposed to be back from the smash repairers last week (unfortunately that was delayed) so, it looks as though i'll have it back tomorrow. I had it for 9 days, they've had it for 34 days, maybe i should get them to make the next repayment!!!sad huh.
i've just come back from my gyno - he still prefers if we go through IVF - although we don't feel that is for us as we already have two sons and if can't have another baby (the other way), we'll just resign ourselves to that's it. So, i've told him no IVF, he sent me for a million blood tests (about nine vials later), a lot of them related to the m/c. he commented that he wished he'd known about the m/c cause he would have ordered other tests at the time (he was the last person we were thinking about at the time). Also increased dosage of metformin and we're going to try tamoxifen - has anyone tried this? as clomid doesn't seem to make a difference, although i am ovulating.

[Baby Angels]

Huge Huge Huge Congrats. I love it when people come in here and seem to go just as quickly.... Not that I want you to go but you know what I mean.... Not TTC anymore.... BFP instead.

All the best over the next few weeks.... our hearts and prays go out to you

As for me.... Well I m not going anywhere. I have decided I am still officially TTC. So therefore I can still come in here..... I just dont know when the official TTC as in conception will be..... For me now its step one... build on relationship.... then worry about sperms and eggs. (who knows... by then DH s might have learnt how to swim) So i m still going to be here to watch everyones progress.... to check up on how all the big fat tummys are going, bake cyber cakes, smack hands for negative thoughts and generally keep an eye on everyone.

[Brockstar]

Hello Ladies! Just read back thru the last 6 pgs of this thread... gee, a lot happens when I go away for 6 days...!

Anyway, congrats to any and :babydust: to all in the tww.

Things are still cruising along here, symptoms are much, much stronger than last time, nausea is really bad (no red meat - cooking, buying OR eating - for me, it's gross!!!) and the bb's, well, it hurts to put a bra on some days...

OB appointment on 8 April, so that all is well. Am guessing I'll be about 7-8 weeks then.

to everyone and I hope that you all had a lovely easter break.

[AJC]

Wow - what a day. 2 BFP's -
CONGRATULATIONS Natty & Magda
Wishing you both the very happiest and healthiest of pregnancies!

Jodsan - understandable that you might be ready to take a break. I felt so good after we had our 4 month break at the end of last year. It's so hard not to let it consume your life though. Maybe you need a nice holiday too?

ll80 - good to hear you are relaxed. Spread it around if you can, he he he.

Angelbabies: am now taking Clomid hence the chuck chuck chuck. Have been fine ever since but I'm only cd8 today so long way to go. I think working on your relationship sounds like a good idea. This month I have decided to focus on romance month so I went out and bought a stack of candles today. Have big plans for next week. Glad you'll still be here to bake our cakes

smilinatu - did you test today? Good luck

The Mummies to be - glad you are all doing well.

Mollycat - Ah ha - same Ob/Gyn. Would be a tough to embark on the IVF journey. Good luck with the meds and hopefully things will happen.

Good luck everyone in tww!!!

So much has happened, sorry if I've missed anyone.

[bettyboop]

wow congrats on 2 BFP anybody else.
trying to keep busy, my opp is 11am monday, trying to think positive , after all this i am praying the doc will say yes you will be able to have children , deep down i am so worried he will say sorry you will never have anymore children , i just wanted to give my new husband a child .

[fiona264]

Congratulations to Natty and Magda. Well done and sticky vibes for you both.

bettyboop Good luck for Monday. I too wanted to give my new husband a baby...you know, a bit of both of us.

Hi to everyone else......

[berecca623]

Just popped in to check on everyone and had to say

to NATTY and MAGDA!!!!!

Congratulations girls and I hope you both have happy and healthy pregnancies!

[Magda]

Hi Ladies,

Thank you to all of you for the Congratulations and happy wishes.

Brockstar, As crazy as this may sound, all of your symptoms are wonderful. This morning my breast was hurting and I was like Yes!.

Natty: My af is due on Monday as well. And I forgot to tell you that my husband's response was the same as your husband's. I guess they don't want to be too emotionally involved.

Have a great day ladies.

[smilanatu]

CONGRATS on your ladies!!!

I did POAS twice and got both times so this wasn't my month...I am disappointed and since there are no signs of AF (due today) I am praying my cycle isn't getting ready to go haywire again! I had never had AF issues until I m/c in December

[Niamh75]

Hi Ladies

just wanted to wish you all lots and lots of luck TTC

When i was trying for number two we were delighted when we got a BFP it was very faint when i was 8 weeks i noticed spotting and even though i had spotting on my first i just knew it was wrong when i went to the hospital they kept me in and scanned me found an empty sac cyst on ovary and closed cervix said i was 6 weeks but i went on to lose they baby luckily it was complete and i didn't need an d&c
I was told to wait on till i had one proper cycle before trying again so feeling sorry for my self and so sad we waited for my AF to return and start TTC again 8 weeks later and no sign so i braved it did a test and got a bfp lept off the test he is 5 now

when we found out i was pregnant this time i was terrified it was going to happen again as it was a very faint positive again but thankfully baby a sticker and doing well
so good luck to you all and lots of sticky vibes

[Baby Angels]

Until Aunty Flow knocks on the door there is still a chance...... and even if it isnt this month then it could be next month. Tommorrow is a new day!

[smilanatu]

Angel Babies...I absolutely adore you! Thanks for the smile! I aprreciate your positivity

[plc1805]

first of all huge HUGE HUGE congrats to Natty and Magda - well done!!!! I am so so so so so so so PLEASED for u both!!!!

I will bbl for personals - have been reading just haven't posted. Take care!!!!!

[AJC]

[QUOTE=prayingandhoping;1203918]

I want so bad to be pregnant again...

I am just struggling...with fear, apprehension and jealousy.

Is this too soon to start trying again? Why do I feel like I am going soooooo crazy?

QUOTE]

Prayingandhoping - welcome. What I have quoted above (and don't think I did it properly) is totally NORMAL. I felt so guilty at first about most feelings especially the jealousy but once I accepted that this feeling was normal I seemed to cope alot better.

I am really sorry that you are here but I'm sure you will find great support in here. Hoping you get that BFP and h&h pregnancy very soon.

Niamh75 - thanks for popping in. It's always so encouraging to hear stories like yours.

smilinatu - sorry about the BFN. Until af arrives though anything is possible. At the very worst I hope you have a normal cycle but will be happier if it's just too early for a BFP.

Bettyboop - good luck for Monday. I hope you hear the words that you need to hear.

It's nearly the weekend everyone -

[Brockstar]

Brockstar, As crazy as this may sound, all of your symptoms are wonderful. This morning my breast was hurting and I was like Yes!.

Oh Magda, I know! I also promised myself that if this one was a sticky one, that I would NOT COMPLAIN about any of it. But by gees, I've been sick!! As much as it sux feeling like this, it's also a good feeling as well.

But I'm STILL NOT PREPARED to post in PAML thread or add a ticker until I've seen the heartbeat.