Barbara - thinking of you today :hugs:

TM - sorry that AF arrived - good luck for this month.

jo - glad that you are settled in your new place but sorry that you are having a few moments with DH. my dh has said something similar about dealing with it and moving on - it hurt me a lot too when he said it. i have come to accept that we are different and i really do think that men in general feel this grief at a different level than women. fingers crossed for your imacuate conception!

snowie - welcome and sorry for your losses. you are more than welcome here. we have all had different journeys but we all still feel the same pain. i know initially i didnt really feel like i fitted anywhere - i didnt have a m/c and didnt have a stillborn, i dont have any fertility issues as such so where did i fit?? i guess as i continued to post i learnt that we all "dont fit" but that's what makes us all belong if that makes sense. we all desperatly want a child but know all too well the pain of loosing one (or more) so please feel free to share as little or as much as you want we will all be here to listen and understand.


katie - good on you for a lazy weekend! 9 weeks, congratulations! i bet you cant wait for the 12 week scan. you must get a ticker then - i am going to get one next weekend after i have my scan on sat morning then i will know my dates. i am preparing myself for them saying it is 8 weeks but would be great if they said 9 or 10.

take care all..

wish me luck for going back to work tomorrow - i am really dreading it.