Jo I am so sorry you were made to feel like that.... You didnt disappoint us, but I so look forward to hearing your good news after next week.
Well hopefully some more of us have some positive news soon. My temperatures are looking quite good. Hoping it continues to rise, rise, rise and I get a BFP this month.
If I do get a BFP I will have to thank my natural therapist. I have never had so much discharge around ovulation - ovulated on day 13 and temperatures have risen better than every before.
Fingers Crossed for everybody this month.
I am also catching up with my Prof from Repromed on Wed next week, so I am looking forward to getting all my test results..... fingers crossed they are all good.
Ooh Sue your temps do look good. I hope this is it for you!
Jo, I don't have a funny to share with you but I'm ready to cry with you. I called my ob's office to ask if they've had any news on Hamish's full autopsy results and still no - two months on. It gets better though, the receptionist went on to tell me that the last time they ordered an autopsy, it took NINE MONTHS for the results to come back because only one hospital in Sydney does them and they're overloaded. I said so I have to wait that long to TTC again and she said I should.
So I booked in to see my GP right away and she had received a letter from my obs just summarising what happened to me and Ham and that it would take about two months to get his full autopsy results. My GP said that the receptionist sounds like she was just brushing me off and not inclined to chase the results at all. She said to get the hospital details and she will chase for me.
I'm too upset to call the ob's office again. Every time I call I feel like I'm begging for charity. I'll write instead.
I am so sorry you had to deal with that. I think sometimes that people who work within "baby industry" get immune to the fact that people have feelings!!! Or they don't understand or don't know how to speak to somebody who has been through a tough time.
All I can say is that you have a right to know the answers and if you want to ring everyday to see if the results are in, do it!!! Dont ever feel that you should ring....
I wish you all the best in finding out the results soon.
hi everyone!
thanks for al your messages! I do feel alot better today and for some reason have a totally different feeling (of excitment) for next weeks ultrasound. This may change as it gets closer but i think it also has something to do with the fact i am going to the other ultrasound place. (i have been going between 2 depending on appoinment avaliability) I think i will feel alot more comforted there and their style is alot more gentle AND less questions. When i rebooked i did'nt get asked once why the odd ultrasound. I agree Katie -i don't understand why they have to question so much, esp when my referral is from a specialist OB who uses that hospital (everyone knows him) and all my history is there! ARGH! I really hope you are feeling better soon, some horrible flu has just been going around and around, thankfully it has passed through all the girls at work so i should'nt get it again, esp after my 3.5 week stint! rest up - you deserve it!
hammi - i am so sorry for your wait, when i had jacks autospy done it took a week due to the nature of his death. You have a right to follow up the results, 9 months i am sorry is ridiculous! Surely there can't be that big a backlog? keep on their case, don't let them be slack, this may be a matter of numbers and effort for them but you are dealing with losing your child. At least your other doc sounds like they will help you a bit more so i am happy you have more support from them.
sryan - good luck with next weeks appointment. Those charts are unbelieveable! there is a whole world i was too lazy to visit and thank goodness after seeing them, i would have been obsessed!
jen- i'll be thinking of you in the next 2 days. fingers crossed for you!!!!! for us all!
take care guys!
jo
This morning, got out of bed and went to toilet (of course after did temperature!!!) anyway I had a some brown blood in my underwear - not enough to seep through to nightwear, but quite a bit in underwear.
Anyway I am 7 dpo and I am hoping it is implantation, but I really don't have a lot of hope for that.
Why I say that is because on my first cycle after M/C I spotted nearly all through the cycle, but I thought that with having my period, would fix all that.
My temperatures are still high (36.80), so I am a little confused.
I still have brown blood when I go to toilet and wipe
Hi girls, I'm finally back after way too long a time. Now that it's summer, I hope I have more time to read and post.
Anyway, I'm still seeing my FS, but the clomid cycles didn't make me pregnant, so he wants to put me on menopur. which is $700. a month. after the insurance takes care of the copay/deductable.
We definitely won't be doing that step. I hope he keeps me on as a patient after I tell him that.
Hi all
I am so happy I finally got my period back yesterday...YAY... So will now see if my temps settle down and start ovulating again, they have been all over the place since Cooper's birth. It has taken 91/2weeks, was starting to think AF had gone into hiding and wasn't coming back! My cycles can be very irregular so it will be interesting to see what lies ahead, if they prove to be difficult again I think I will head off to the natropath.
Sryan - how is your spotting?? If your temps are still high it could very well be implantation bleeding, and your chart looks great, fingers crossed.
Hammi - I can't believe the doctors receptionist told you that!!! I would be having a HUGE whinge and pushing the issue a bit more you need answers NOW, it has been long enough!
Jo - good luck at your scan, I am glad you are going to a nicer environment, I have come across people just like you mentioned, they have no idea what they say sets off a time bomb of emotions they have just lit the fuse on
Katiegirl - Congratulations on your baby girl, how are you feeling now that you are past the 20 week mark?
Jen - Where are you up to? have you tested yet?
Rozzi - I am new in here too! Welcome
Sorry if I have missed anyone this has just taken me 10 min of going back and reading where everyone is up too, so if I have made a crappy mistake and swapped any of you around, I apologise!
Hello Friends,
I am new to this forum but thought I would jump in and introduce myself to you all as I will be joining you soon on your TTC journeys.
I have just posted my story on the "Your Stories" thread if any of you would like to check me out!
After 4 losses I am determined to enlist some further help for our next attempt and look forward to sharing my story with you all.
In the meantime I have my fingers crossed for all of you and want to let you know that you have my support and best wishes.
GOOD LUCK and lots of baby dust from me...
Mel
your temps do look good. I hope this is it for you!
for us all!
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