Hi Toccara -- welcome to our group, and of course I'm sorry to hear about what you've been through. Try to have a talk with your partner and say that you're not ready yet if that's how you feel. Your emotional state has taken a huge beating this year, not to mention your body as well. I'm sure you'll both be holding your little one soon enough.

Helen -- How are things going now after your stitch? Feeling any better?

Katie -- I've heard the the first time of breast-feeding can be trying for anyone. Hang in there and we hope to hear that it's second nature in a few weeks!