Oh Sue, she definitely is a little miracle. I'm sorry you've lost your litlle bub at 12 weeks, that terrible doctor ! You know what they say about gut feelings, they're hardly ever wrong.
The irony in my IVF journey is that initially we've had to do it because when my DF was still married to his ex wife, he had a versectomy 10 years ago ( she had lupis and they almost lost their son - he was born at 32 weeks ) so when we decided to have kids he had the reversal done, but it wasn't succesful and the sperm count was almost zero.
So we did one cycle of IVF and I got pregnant the first time, but then my fibroid palyed up and I lost Joshua because of it. My doctor ( which I never balmed, as I know from reading heaps of material on fibroids, they rarely cause a problem ) was as shocked as me at what happened. I also think ( and this is MY gut feeling ) that the IVF drugs made the fibroid very angry and it grew so big in the end that it's blood supply got cut off and it started to degenerate, sending my poor uterus into spasms ( then contractions ). I think every woman is different, and women react differently to certain things, and obviously my pregnancy hormones and the IVF drugs just made the fibroid play up.
I will feel so much better once it's removed, although I always pray that we get pregnant naturally, by some miracle. Hey, they do happen, look at you !
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