Jo, I'm sorry you don't have any answers I take it they never found any answers with Jack either? You poor thing, your confidence has been shattered and I suppose all of us who have been through this hope there is a simple cause that can easily be remedied, but it rarely seem to turn out that way. It's good though that you will see the best doctors around, there's not much more you can do right now. If you don't want to get pregnant straight away you'd better not do BD or stay off this forum, because pregnancy seems contagious in here!!! I'm sure when you're ready we can infect you quickly enough

Helen, we all go through those moments. At work today it was mentioned twice that a person I needed to speak to was on leave because his wife had a baby ( I would have thought he was pushing 50??!!) and it just threw me. Not much you can do I guess, rub your belly perhaps?!

Sue wonderful news!!! you did so well waiting till after 8 weeks to see your peanut too!!! Not much more I can say but I'm so thrilled for you

Tildy, thinking of you as you go to the doctor tomorrow. I hope your bleeding and cramping stops soon

Hi Lan and Paula and anyone else I've missed.

Well after mulling over the decision I decided to buy a doppler, which arrived today. I decided that it would be good reassurance until I felt movement, and if the worst were to happen again I would rather confirm it at home in my own time and not stress out waiting for an appointment. I tried to get it to work, which it didn't, so I rang the very unhelpful guy at the company who told me to try a different battery, which I didn't have, so rang DH to pick one up on the way home. When I took the battery out it was still wrapped, felt very foolish, and of course it worked after that. Found the baby's HB fairly easily which is great cause it was the cheapest I could get. DH loved hearing it too, we counted it at about 150 bpm. Was lots of fun! Must put it away now!!! feel like celebrating, maybe dinner and a movie. The eve of a long weekend always puts me in a good mood!!!

Bye for now!!!