CRumpet, you crack me up! I hope iwth all my heart he is right. Go take a test hun....hurry and tell us.

Dory, It is great to feel empowered by a decision hey! Good on you for deciding which way to go. I can imagine it must have been hard. I am an emotional eater too. I eat for company too. God we are funny. I am thinking of you hun and hope this down moment is fleeting and you are up on coud nine again before you know it.
I hope that book turns up. What was that other book you recommneded a while back? I should right it down before it is lost forever. xoxo

SuzieQ, I am sorry you have come to need this thread. Welcome and I hope we can all be of help to you. I am quite fond of this little group. I am sorry you have lost your child hun, your baby girl. It is funny, your username makes me stop in my tracks. That is my mum's nickname from her youth. Hope that days get easier. Take your time. It feels like you need to rush, i understand that, but as time goes, you understand the need to heal on every level. Do what is right for you hun. As i said to one of the other girls, it really depends on what your cycle was like before bubs. I was regular as clock work and pg improved my cycles at first, lighter and shorter and no or less pain. I stopped bleeding in the first 10 -14 days after DD's birth. Then 28 days later...af. I was not ready to make love though for some time after that, emotionally. It also depends on the birth you had, and any procedures. I had a natural birth and no retained placenta. My body worked up to that so it was ready to let go. DD died and I gave birth to her 5.5 weeks later. That is my theory for me though, we are all different.

Love to all !Sorry not to mention names.
This girl is tired and a lot to get done so I will chat later.
Briefly, Looked after gorgeous nephew today. Lovely day. Helping my friend out with her kids in Byron again next week. That will be a long week. Mum and Dad bought me a nice camera which was incredible of them. I am very excited to have it.
Oh dear...tired, Off i go to watch some tv.
Love to all again. xoxo