TTC AFTER Late Loss/Recurrent Miscarriage/ Stillbirth Sept 2009

[blessedatlast]

Hi everyone,

A selfish post.. Please read my announcement here: https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...ml#post2079128 Yes I have done it.. 1 day before my babies anniversary!! What bizzare timing.. Although I am not at the point of acceptance or the belief 'Things happen for a reason' This is definitely something that never would have happened had my babies been here.. Given the choice I would take my babies any day but if I have to deal with life without my bubs I may as well get a career out of it hey!! Now, about this TTC thing, I have decided to just let it be.. I am NOT using contraception and if I fall pregnant and have to drop out well so be it.. Otherwise I could spend the next 2 yrs TTC and in that time I could have finished.. Anyway, I am rambling, my emotions are all over the shop and I am feeling a little overwhelmed.. Ok going now!!

[helle]

Now, about this TTC thing, I have decided to just let it be.. I am NOT using contraception and if I fall pregnant and have to drop out well so be it..

Aaah yes, this is the approach we took when we decided to stop waiting around for things to happen and started concentrating on planning our wedding instead. We even started using condoms again, (under instructions from my Naturopath and Dr as they both agreed I needed to chill out as my body was too run down to get pregnant) and got carried away once and forgot. Monday, April 13th.

The weekend after I had ordered in my wedding dress, that fit me like a glove, I got a +ive HPT and had to BEG the lady who sold me the dress to get it in in a bigger size to fit in a 6 month pregnant belly.



I hope your studies go well chick, there is definately a lot to be said for constructive distraction (as I like to call it) I hope all your dreams come true!