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thread: TTC after Stillbirth/ Recurrent Miscarriage or Loss after 1st Trimester June 07 #2

  1. #127
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    Bailey - Well I had huge respect for your brother, he is pretty cute, he can cook... and then you go and tell me something like that and it ruins it all Do you remember the song "Regulator"? That's another one I can remember the words to this day, but I must its still quite catchy LOL. I still am a dag with music, always have been always will be (I used to love Roy Orbison - and still do). OK should be off now... before I make things worse

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    It was a clear black night a clear white moon Warrnen G was on the street trying to consume!!!!! I love that song Mel.

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    Just wanted to say a quick hello to all you lovely ladies - I am sorry I have been very quiet lately (not in a good place at the moment). I have read through your posts and think it is impossible for me to do proper personals.

    Mel - I am sorry it was so hard to put away the nursery. It is such a difficult time and I am sure it will get easier now. Have you put something else in the room or are you leaving it empty? I found it very hard having it empty so we bought some furniture and made it into a spare bedroom. Makes it easier to go in there now - but thats just me.

    Bailey - glad to see you doing well and that the m/s is easing. Mine has been real bad this time around but is better than it was thank goodness. Good luck in 3wks for your scan - I have mine in 4wks and really looking forward to it too. These milestones are very important.

    Hi to everyone else - I am looking forward to meeting most of you in August - especially if dessert is on offer :-)

    I will try to keep up in future - promise.

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    Hey guys, sorry it has taken me a while to post but all is good with *Hope*. Her/his heartbeat was 167 so nice and strong and they said that everything look fantastic. They were just wonderful and so caring at the hospital and made it a bit easier for me. I am going back in 2 weeks for another scan.

    Bailey - yes my blob *hope* is beautiful!! DH had to ask what end the head was! LOL!!! I guess it is a bit early yet to see. Hopefully in 2 weeks it will be clearer. Lunch with Phil Kearns was good. He is so polite and a lovely person. I told him all about Cooper which was great.

    Mel - big hugs to you babe what a big day you had yesterday. the girls are right, Nicholas is always with you, in your heart and dreams :hugs: I hope you are feeling a bit better soon. YOu have done the right thing by having a few days off. I will be thinking of you on Thursday. I'm sure everything will go well and before you know it you will be UTD!!!

    Tommysmum - you definitely would have got an infraction yesterday!!!! But you made us laugh and that is what is important! See you Wednesday I am definitely going (mind me a seat!)

    Klee - welcome back! We missed you. I'm glad you had a great time away. If I was on that plane I would have smiled at you! You are a mummy, a very special one at that and one day (very soon) you will have everyone smiling at you

    Spring - it was very emotional going back into the hospital. I sat in the corridor until they called my name and it was good that they didn't make us wait long. I requested that we didn't go into the same room as when we found out about Cooper. They were just wonderful and I'm glad you are going there too now and not putting up with those horrible women at THAT other hospital (won't mention any names!). I wouldn't look at the screen until she said to me that everything was ok. She wanted me to see the heartbeat before she did anything else which was good.

    Nat - thanks for not stalking me today!!!!! just jokes! Hope you recovered from yesterday. It was such a fun day.I told my mum about the waiter who asked us if we were a mother's group and we said sort of! Imagine if we told him how we met.

    I hope everyone else is well

    Take care :hugs:

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    OMG Spring thats just too funny - you know that bit "Nate Dog and the G-child were in need of something else"... I used to sing it to my sister and say Nate Dog and the L-child" cause of our surname and I still sometimes call her the L-child to this day - it cracks me up, but it is such a cool song! Hey I think this could be yet another club?!?!?!?

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    Feb 2007
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    Mel - sorry to hear that it was difficult to pack up the nursery. It must have been tough - it is never easy is it. And a double wammy with AF turning up - damn witch. But never fear - July could be the month for you babe. Just snuggle up to DH during these winter nights and who knows what might happen hey ?

    JLK - that is so sad that your brother had to witness that accident and just terrible that that man suffered so. No one should have to go through something like that - just awful. Hope you are well otherwise.

    BAiley - no worries about the lift. Just let me know about Wednesday no problem. I am sure it is going to be a sad night - but i am still keen to go and cry my heart out - greeeeeeat !!!! 2 weeks will go fast for your scan - i cant wait ! I think the MS is hitting me now when i cook - but that is about it ! Hope it has passed and you don't need a bucket anymore.....

    PS i do not need a censor - i am just a nutter (i told you all that before). Plus if Spring knew where her genitals were i think things would have been more civilised. Lunch was great (thanks Dream for booking). I was soooo full last night when i got home - i ate too much - but hey, what could you expect for eating fries (who ordered those by the way ?); garlic bread, pasta, s/date pudding and coffee....

    Hello to everyone else.

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    Mel, it was driving me insane trying to remember the spoken bit at the begining so I googled it.

    We regulate any stealing of his property
    And we damn good too
    But you can't be any geek off the street,
    Gotta be handy with the steel if you know what i mean, earn your keep!
    Regulators!!! mount up!


    Ok I'll leave it there now.

  8. #134
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    Oct 2006
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    Sorry missed the other posts...

    Lynn - So happy that everything was so good Sorry, forgot about your lunch date today (was so wrapped in the scan LOL) - how was he when you told him about Cooper?

    Tess - You are right, it would be too hard to leave the room empty. My parents are coming to stay with us for a month on Thursday (just in time to look after me after my procedure LOL) so they will be living in there... although we may allow them out of the room to go to the toilet LOL After they go we will be putting a treadmill in there - buying one next week YAY!

  9. #135
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    hi there girls


    i hope you dont mind me popping in and chatting with you all. i found out i had misscarried last thursday and had to get a d&c done i was 12 weeks pregnant.
    my partner and i will be ttc as from next friday as i have to wait 2 weeks. and thought i could share our jurney with you guys it would be nice to get to know you all.


    love susan

  10. #136
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    LOL so did I - for Bailey's benefit only though

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    Lynn - wonderful news - see i told you all would be ok. Sounds like the hospital staff handled everything tastefully for you. And now you have faced another challenge (going back to the hospital). Although hard - it is just another step closer.
    I am glad i made you laugh (you probably all think i am crazy but that is how i am) - i am glad i still have my sense of humour - i think that has helped me greatly get through the tragedy that we have all faced. Definitely see you there on Wednesday - and will save you a seat.

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    Susan

    Welcome honey and so sorry for your loss :hugs:

    Lv Spring

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    Susan

    Welcome to the thread. Sorry to hear about you losing your baby - just awful and i know how you feel. I am glad though you are keen to get back into TTC and to beat it and to bring your baby home. Good luck and look forward to chatting with you.

  14. #140
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    thankyou you guys yes my dr told me to stay positive and i have already had two beautiful children and that im sure to have another one. so im not to stress or it may take me a little longer to concieve and we dont want that.

    tommysmum i was reading through the thread and it seems that everything has been turning good for you and the bubs which is wonderful. and fingers crossed for the rest of the journey.

    love susan

  15. #141
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    Welcome Susan - sorry for your loss Hope your TTC journey is a swift one

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    Mar 2006
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    Susan - I am so sorry for your loss. This is the best place for support so feel free to stay with us.

    Lynn - I will post here too - I am so pleased all went well today. I did not think about the hospital part until I arrived there last week (on my own, as DH had a meeting he could not get out of) and had to walk into the same ward as I went in the stretcher. It was really upsetting but I am glad I did it and feel that it is a step closer (as Tommysmum said) to our ultimate goal!!

  17. #143
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    Dec 2006
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    Hi Susan,
    Welcome. I am sorry to hear about your baby. You have come to the right place for support. It might look a little crazy in here sometimes, but these awesome ladies have saved me.

  18. #144
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    Apr 2007
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    Hi all - it looks like I'm last up (again) - my cousin says only witches stay up as late as me LOL.
    Anyway, hi to everyone -
    Mel - I was so sad to hear about the nursery pack up and think your DH is so gorgeous. It must have been so so hard ...and as for AF...there are no words for that witch! Good on you for getting yourself ready for Thursday - I'll be hoping all goes well on the day! I'm sure Nicholas will be with you and giving you little angel cuddles. BTW I made an appointment with your OB it's on 7 August - so thank you for that advice and that little bit of hope. Hopefully we'll be able to schedule some regular appointments together and catch up!
    SpringStill stalking your ticker and pleased to see all is bouncing along so quickly - I'm sure it doesn't seem like it to you. September is creeping up. How are you feeling? Is the pregnancy different to Harrison's? Do you have any boy/girl feelings?
    SusanHi Susan - I too am sorry for your loss and like the others that TTC is the shortest journey you have to take!
    Tommysmum you sound like fun! Mel and I will have to come to Sydney some time and play with you all!
    Lynn Go Hope? Is 167 considered a fast heart rate - am I right in thinking that is sometimes a boy thing?
    Hope everyone is well - and thank you to everyone who gave me a boost a couple of days ago - it was one of those yuk periods - and I'm pleased to say it's moved away for now.
    Jo how's your brother doing? What a terribly hard time for him!
    BaileyI've just noticed your ticker flying along too!

    The only news from me is that DH and I are officially TTC again,again,again - which is really just a small step up from "letting nature take it's course" (that was last months decision). The main difference is that we have an appointment with Mel's lovely OB Thanks Mel BUT it's a big step up from "I can't do this anymore".
    As we all know - we can always do this some more !
    Also a really big to everyone having/waiting on scans at the moment - it takes so much strength to wait for a scan. I know that when our time comes again to be sitting in the darkened room - it will take all of my strength to keep it together. I'm not sure the Hampton scan centre I went to will want me back LOL! What I mean is, I'm thinking of you all!

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