Hi sorry I didnt explain my situation properly, I was 16 wks and 4 days into my pregnancy with Noah when my waters broke. It has only been 3 weeks since we lost him on the 8/2/07. However, the hole he has left in my heart so needs filling and thats why Myself and my husband want to 'try' as soon as possible.

People keep saying wait a year and then try again, but why should we? We were ready for a baby now thats why I was pregnant!?

Thank you all for replying to me- I will try and catch up on your histories.

Can any of you advise me with regards to ovulation after a m/c, I'm on day 20 of my cycle and am still spotting on and off, and I have been using ovulation predictor sticks and they are still negative.

My story is on a website we have made for Noah- I'm not trying to plug it- its just hard to keep typing whats happened and I appreciate you are all overseas!

www.noahsark.moonfruit.com