Spring - I'm sorry that you are going through this by yourself and you don't DH at home with you. I'm sure that he is just as scared as you are but at the same time is there to support you. He is probably scared because he hasn't seen lil' Spring like you have. Maybe when he is home next week and he goes with you and he sees lil' Spring, he will be more excited. I don't think he is having doubts, he is probably upset that he isn't there for you at the moment and just isn't as strong as he normally is.
Is your ob definite about not inducing before 38 weeks? I guess it is a decision that you will have to make soon because you don't want to get to near the end and then you really want to be induced at 36 and he won't do it. Maybe have another chat to him and ask him his reasons and this might help you to go through to 38. Also being in hospital might help too because you can be monitored. I guess I don't really know the risks of inducing at 36 weeks so can't really advise you - sorry I wish I could. I know this is a difficult decision but I know you will work out what is best for you. Remember at the end of the day, it is your decision. Take care and I'm thinking of you.