Hey there girls!

Chelle - I knew it!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS - I understand you are scared, I am sure that the initial joy of the BFP quickly turns into fear and worry but still allow yourself to enjoy the miracle that is happening.

Deb - Thats fantastic you had such a great ultrasound, I am sending as many vibes as I can and with results like that surely we will be getting some good news from you in a couple of weeks time. I agree with you on the twins, I think it would be wonderful.

Lynn - I am sorry you arent having a good day, I cant imagine how frustrating it is that AF is behaving like this. I know how frustrated I am let alone putting up with that as well. If you need to vent you know where I am and your call is welcome anytime you need to chat

Jo - :hugs: to you for Storm's 3 month birthday tomorrow. You will be in my thoughts.

Klee - Dont be too hard on yourself about your nephew, he is so young he wont even realise what happened. I think it is totally normal that you react in ways you usually wouldnt. I have 3 stepchildren and to be perfectly honest I was starting to be really mean to them, especially the youngest one, until my sister sat me down and told me that I need to change because it is not their fault. You wouldnt believe the things I have said and thoughts I have had, but we are hurting so much and I think we need to be forgiven for mistakes we make.

Nat - Thanks for the babydust, I will definitely need it. Hoping you are well, and enjoying your holidays with DS.

Well as for me the only thing I have to say is that I have decided we are going to DTD every second night until O time which is meant to be Saturday and possibly do it every night from Friday to Tuesday and then every second night again for another few days. Do you guys think that is enough to get UTD? Sorry I know this is really TMI but I really want (and need) to get it right this month. Does anyone think there is any benefit in doing it like morning and night? I would be so over sex by the end but if it got me pregnant I would do whatever it takes. BTW I spoke about this to DH, needless to say he is in his element Oh and also does anyone know if you can do it "too much" during O time? I just keep wondering if maybe we are doing not enough or too much iykwim.

Anyway, have a good night.

Mel

P.S. Spring and Lynn I am just about to send you guys an email now about the house.