Lynn - Thank you for your post, to be honest I think Thomas was stillborn - I did not know the definition of stillborn so thank you for the info. I basically went into labour at 25wks and Thomas was very much alive (they kept checking his heartbeat and he was very stable), but when I gave birth he was breach and I had not dilated enough to let him through without problems. So i think he died as i was delivering him so he was born still (or was unable to breath and died??). Sorry did not mean to give so much detail there but it just sort of needed to get off my chest.
I have not spoken to anyone about it as the ob who saw us 6wks after the birth told us to go back when I was pregnant again. I am scared to go back too soon for fear of what he might say - sorry i am still burying my head in the sand about some things (trying to make some memories go away as it is easier).
Anyway I am hoping todays results for you are good - to be honest i do not really understand most of what you guys are talking about but I like to hear good things happening to you all so keep up those positive posts!!
Spring - It is good that you are feeling some movement this early - I did not feel anything even at 25wks. I am so hoping my next pregnancy has a posterior placenta so that the kicks are not masked so much.
Deb - so sorry to hear about your friend. She is fortunate to have you as her friend to help her though this difficult time.
Mel - Glad you and DH are talking things though - it can only be a positive thing. I wish my DH would talk to me about his feelings too, he just seems to worry about me and forget about himself and changes the subject when i bring it up. Hopefully it will come with time.
Bailey - hope you caught the egg this month - if you are DTD often I am sure its just a matter of time. Good luck.
Well best get back to work - can't spend all my time on BB (unfortunately!).
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