Thanks Lynn - I am sorry that it took a long time to conceive with Cooper. It took us 12mths to conceive Thomas - I have PCOS and had one appointment with a fertility specialist 2wks before I found out i was pregnant. I am hoping it will not take so long this time for you (or me).

My DH is the same where i feel he bottle things up and is so concerned about me that he is not allowing himself the time to grieve. At the moment he is keeping very busy at work and home. He wants to put all his energy into getting our house/garden finished (we are renovating) so that i can have a pregnancy without the paint fumes/stress etc.

I am sure things will get better - life cannot continue to be crap forever i am sure.
T.