HI,
Congrats on keeping it going so long!!
My DS has been down to one morning feed for about 6 months but WOW it's hard to talk him out of that one 'specially 'cause it's at around 5-7 in the morning when I am generally at my lowest ebb and it's just easier to snuggle under the covers with him and feed him.
I found cutting out night feeds worked for me by offering cuddles and a sippy cup with water. He rejected this or had a small drink and yelled at me for about 10 mins then went back to sleep. I then found his one night feed just gradually got later and later until it was the morning one.
We don't co-sleep so I could pop him into his cot (which is in our room) and not be "attacked".
One thing I found helped create a longer gap between his evening feed and the one he thought he needed during the night was a very active afternoon then a big dinner of favourite type food and a good milk drink.
DS is now 2yr 8m and I am 3 days into weaning him off his morning feed. I tried bribing him with flavoured milk. This was an epic fail 'cause he just had the milk then screamed for "boobie juice". The next day I thought I'd try the milk mid-feed and he happily drank it ...........then had more "boobie juice!"
I went away for one night and he happily had flavoured milk for DH but then happily went back to bb's with me the next day!
I have found distraction is my friend and pj's with very little front access (hehehe). I have listened to some light protests but offered a milk drink or "lets get up" or a cuddle in mummy's bed.
I have no idea how long he'll take to just accept it's all over and I'm willing to accept we might have the odd feed if things go "bust" over the next week or so.
I wish you luck 'cause it's tough to keep feeding but it's really worth it............
This seems to be working but I'll let you know................