thanks so much everyone for your comments. he hasnt been a very good friend over the past year or so to DP anyay . and generally stuff is all about him most the time anyway. Hannah: thats exactly what i said . its not a party it a celebration.
i think Hes just bent out of shape cause this one couple is invited and he isnt. very childish really. if he carries on after the last message i sent then DP is going to send him a message just saying "we recieved your RSVP, its a shame you cant make it to our special day, see you soon" and that will be that. dont really want him there now anyway, i think he will just be judging the day and *****ing to people about it. thanks again all !!!!!!