sooz a pic of declans cake is on his website it was easy peasy just get some pre made sponge cakes that are little slabs or get a big slab cut it out and ice it if you can get your hands on the womens weekly birthday cake book it is excellent with templates and the reciepe for a VERY yummy icing

Nickers, I totally understand and am scared of it happening again it is soo hard to describe the pain I felt just that I thought I was about to die worst pain I ever felt I had contractions only a couple of minutes apart that went for at least 90 secs and was off the rickter on the ctg machine and yeah they were uncomfortable and a bit ouchie but nothing like the pain I felt after the c/s and also the pain of the needle for the spinal OMG they couldn't get it in the right spot it took 3 attempts AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAGGGHHHH!

Good news I have FINALLY got all my accreditations I am now a accredited mortgage consultant AMC with the Mortgage and Finance Association of Australia!!! YAY about time stupid police check held it up for 4mths just because there is someone else with the same name out there grrr anyhow more to the point as soon as I have made some decent money and can prove to DH that it is a viable thing A I do not have to go back to work and B We can try for another bub so fingers crossed the next 6mths and beyong is very succesfull for me!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THOSE I HAVE MISSED AND THOSE COMMING UP I AM LIKELY TO MISS! GOOD LUCK WITH THE PARTIES AND I HOPE YOU BUBBIES DON"T GET SICK LIKE DECLAN DID!!!!!!!!!!!

Well I am off to bed have had some shockers the last few nights and I am totally exhausted!