Sharon huge darl dont you just love how screwed up our emotions can be! If i lived anywhere near you i would go with you!
Wow at the other bub having even more hair than Oliver!
Thankfully i dont have to have a papsmear just yet, but thats only because i had one when Mitchie was about 2 or 3mths old! Some i guess thats something positive about having bubs this close together!
Hope you feeling better soon

Sarah Huge for you too darl, i also don't have any advice but wish i was there to give you a shoulder to cry on. The scary thing is it sounds just like my marriage to my ex husband. I hope you can work through it, although its very hard when they continue to run away from the problems by not talking! Maybe once the kids are in bed jsut lay your cards on the table and tell him this is how i am feeling and see how he responds, other than that mate i got nothing. I do feel for you though, our emotions are in major upheaval after having a bub as it is without the extra strain of relationship issues as well

Zennie sounds like Russel is doing really well with his weight. As for his sleep pattern changing while DH away and then retrning back to normal when he home it is prob just the vibes he is picking up on, you are probably just more relaxed with DH home. As for the wind he isnt letting go of in the early hours the only thing i can suggest is try the cycling motion with his legs. Hold his feet and ankles and peddle his legs as if he was on a bike and you can peddle up hill by slowly pushing his legs up into his tummy until his back is off the bed and then peddle back down again. do this slowly and hopefully it will get things working downstairs for him. IT workded for my DS when he wa younger. Good luck

Lisylee i have no idea as to what the granuals could be, i would jsut ring the help line and query it with them or your CHN. Sorry i got nothing


Danielle its great to hear from you. It can get a bit hectic here, but i jsut battle through. I love the times through the day when all the other kids are at school and its just Mitchie Molly and myself! We can jsut chill and be at home and not have to run around everywhere. Once the older kids get home from school thats when its full on hectic here! With homework and geting DS to work and having to go to town for stuff. I find that stuff much harder than being at home jsut caring for the two littlies!
You would be finding it much harder of course after having a c-sec, what were you thinking trying to do exercises (oh please dont take offence) i jsut know what my body was like after having my second c-sec and you must be soooo better than me cause i didnt even think about exercise until Mitchie was 6mths! Take it slow woman!Let yourself heal a bit more. Just running around after your two littlies is more than enough! I hope you feel better soon also hope you dont hate me for saying what i said


Shelley thats awesome that BJ is doing so well. Oh i hate needle time! I always have to take mine, DH will come when he can but i always get to hold them! Good luck and be strong tomorrow

Beatrix i bet you have your hands full! I so know what you mean with just getting on with it. When i left my ex i had 3 kids and youngest was 10mths and you do just get on with it, there is no one else there to rely on or pray that they will do it, so you just do it! (if that makes sense) I actually found my kids settled into routine much better too, my 10mth old actually started sleeping through the night form the day i left! So for us it was a good thing. I hope all works out well for you and your girls