Shoegal that is great news about Baxter, you will probably find that he will start to 'fatten up' now that he is having some good weight gains.
Zennie the last 4 days or so Oliver has been sleeping from 10.30pm to around 6.30am which is fantastic for me, his 10.30 feed is a sneaky one as he is still half asleep and I get him up for that one but stay in his dark room and feed, have you tried the sneaky feed? it doesn't work for everyone, but at least if you do it around the time you would normally go off to bed you may find that you then get to sleep through to a more respectable hour in the morning.
Taurusa have been thinking of getting something like that CD, a friends mum taped a thing on TV last year, I think it was the baby whisperer but I never got to watch it and now I can't find the tape that it was on, will have to have another proper look and not just a 'boy look'
alittlegrubi I don't think that anyone has a 'perfect' relationship, my DH and I have a fantastic one, but definitely not perfect.