Sarah Don't feel guilty, because if you work it out you spend that much once or twice a year on yourself and in the 12 times you buy for everyone else it adds up to more than that once or twice spend up.

You need to feel good about yourself to ensure that your kids and DH get teh best out of you too. If you feel crap then you aren't likely to want to give of yourself either.

BTW, I still ahve my tubby tummy too!