Caixin: I struggled with this decision too, we have given her the dummy, she likes to feed constantly when she is having a reflux episode & this makes the situation worse so the dummy has been a lifesaver at times. She's funny though sometimes she will take it & sometimes she won't. I didn't want her to have a dummy but I think for the difference it makes now it is worth it even if we struggle to get rid of it later on. Do what's right for you & bub Hun don't do it because other ppl want you too xo