Apple - i think warm bath with lavender or camomile (sorry bout spelling) before a warm bottle then bed seems to work well. how do you bath bonnie? have you tried filling the large bath with just a couple of inches of water and then let her ly in it. i found with both zara and aiden they loved the freedom and went nuts which completely wore them out. also do you have a cd player in her room? try a relaxing cd playing quietly all night so if she wakes she might just ly their and listen and drop off herself. also cot toys are great...zara use to wake at around 4am have a quick play and them back to sleep. i never got up to her. i hope this helps a little.
kaydee - congrats on the new seat ben must be so proud of himself...its soooo sad how quick they grow!
happy birthday snowy! cute video!

take care narelle