hi guys

thanks for all the support! I rang my mum after i posted and asked her if we could live them she said yes of course...

but she also said to not make any decision while i'm not feeling well. I htink she's worried that we'll move back, not like it and then move back here again.

honestly - it's possible.

I'm so torn. but I will wait til i'm feeling better and then DH and I will tlak about it again. BUt in the end I think I will leave it up to DH coz as hard as it is here, I can manage. BUT i'd always feel bad if I pushed for us to move and then DH couldn't find a job that he'd enjoy etc....so hard. DH is only another few years off making partner too.... so there are all thiese things to consider.


Yael - if I were you, I'd definitely try the metamucil and not the head ache stuff. Also - when I was suffering the same thing, my doctor said to eat 2 corn cobs and 2 pears everday. I did that (well some days I'd forget etc... but I was pretty good and did it most days) and that was when I started getting less pain and a few weeks later it was heaps better if not totally back to normal.

are you eating and drinking regularly enough? definitley go the high fibre everything diet first.... and if that doesn't work then try the botox option

At the end of the day $500 is a lot of money and not that much money at the same time.IYKWIM

it's a lot of money for a pair of shoes, for example.... but it's nothing if it means you will be able to live pain free! and it's not money spent just on you - even if it was... sometimes you need to.

Dh keeps telling me that in order to look after the baby you have to look after yourself! SO if you want the best for DA (and I know you do) and for your future children, then you owe it to yourself to make sure YOU are healthy and happy!!

and that is why I changed my naturopath appoinment to Saturday! DH rang and said he made himself an appointment for the naturopath for saturday 12pm. so I changed mine to 2pm and booked in a massage for 12.45pm. IT was Dh's idea so how could I refuse!

I'm so looking forward to it! I have 6 months worth of knotted shoulders to sort out.

xxx
L