Oh Kelly- I hope you find the time you need , and please don't say you aren't a good mum, cos just like the rest of us you are working hard to give your family what they need, we all neglect things sometimes. Your kids love you and you love them, hang in there, things will settle down. I think you are doing an amazing job working FT and with the 3 kids. I stopped working when I had no.3 cos it was too hard!!! Anyway I hope you can pop in occasionally, we look forward to hearing how things are and good luck with everything.

Snowgirl- Jess will be 2 in Sept and I am in no hurry to get her into a bed. I think it is a personal choice, but I know that she will be out every 5 seconds so she will stay in her cot, she climbs out anyway lol but when sheis put to bed stays there at night, so no need to make a change. I always put mne into a big bed straight off and if I was worried about falling out I brought a safety rail.

Gym today so gotta go, be back later maybe