ARGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG my BHL had to go over to his mothers house yesterday to borrow something so I didnt want to go so the kids and I stayed home. Anyway while he was over she gave him the 3rd deg about moving to melb asking if its what he really want to do ( what its ok to forse me to stay somewhere I dont want to be but not ok for him to move to somewhere he may not want to be...) He told her that yes he does want to go and that he is happy to be moving... She does not believe him, But then she started on him about us wanting a 4th baby ( she must have heard this from sil as we have a mutul friend) anyway she was telling him that it would be the worst thing we could ever do and that he would be stupid to go along with me and my plan!!!! He said he thought it was funny and he kepted making jokes about the 4th baby and as he had a big smerk on his face, so she now thinks I am am PG even though he told her I wasnt. I was wondering why she hasnt spoken to me in 3 week ( not thats that unuall (sp?) I thought it was because I told her that we are moving but no its because we want another baby next year. Sorry just had to get this of my chest or I may have exploded as BHL just things its all a big joke and that I shouldnt let her botter me as she is just a craky old cow as he puts it, but I cant help myself she makes me so mad...