Hi there everybody, i am wondering if anybody is having trouble getting their babies to sleep??
Ashlyn was really good early on but then started to refuse to sleep at around 4 weeks...she actually caught a cold from Rylan so i think this may have thrown her out of whack. So basically from then until now it has been hit and miss some days she will sleep 10 mins others she will sleep 3 hours.
The worst thing is the fact that she is really hard to settle at night, i will get her sorted for bed and give her a bottle and sometime she will fall asleep no worries and stay dead to the world for 15-20mins but as soon as i put her down in her cot she is wide awake!!
I can sit on the lounge with tv on, Rylan running around yelling, get up walk into her cot, i pretty much lay in the cot to make sure she is laying flat as not to disturb her but as soon as she hits that mattress she is wide awake kicking and cooing
Other time she will be so tired that she fights every attempt to settle her, she will kick and scream and arch her back, throw herself around and if i sit down to rock her she will lose it 10x worse until i stand and rock her and that doesnt always neccesarily work.
I have tried putting her down while she is not quite asleep, i have tried i guess its controlled crying(in my book its actually ignoring her) hoping she will put herself to sleep but she will just scream and now she is rolling she jams herself into the corner of her cot face down, which scares the crap out of me!!! I have tried giving her a nice warm bath with the bedtime stuff and it works sometimes not all.
It is just really getting frustrating every night i seem to be getting so cranky with everyone because she just wont settle and its not fair on them and i dont want to feel like that.
Can anybody help please
Eliza
(Rylansmum)




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) hoping she will put herself to sleep but she will just scream and now she is rolling she jams herself into the corner of her cot face down, which scares the crap out of me!!! I have tried giving her a nice warm bath with the bedtime stuff and it works sometimes not all.
) then it might come down to you deciding when it is nap time and when nap time is over. During the nap, for a little while you may have to go in every 10mins or so to do a quick retuck, pat and settle and then walk out.
So we put her in a light gro bag or wrap her tight in a cot sheet - sometimes just her legs, sometimes arms and legs as the air con can make her too cool. She is houdini but eventually she tires of fighting the sheet and falls asleep
Funny thing tho, in the waiting room after she was getting hungry as it was almost feed time but I wanted to get home first. (the surgery likes children to wait around for 10-15mins after an immunisation just in case of reactions) She was sitting on my lap and turned towards me, put her hand out to my booby and then pulled herself right at it with a big open mouth!!!!! Hahaha! We left after that 



Ah! they just grow up way too fast don't they!!!!!
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