Hello March mummies, I have missed heaps in the few days I have been off! Ariya is having a blah couple of days and will only sleep when being held, her startle reflex is just going nuts at the moment and her little arms and legs are flitting around like you wouldn't believe, add to that the fact that she is overtired after not sleeping properly for 2-3 days and we have a very grumpy bub and tired mummy. Even sleeping on her tummy won't help :-( She wants to be constantly sucking on something too either me or the dummy - I have no idea what is going on,I'm considering giving her some panadol just to see if she's uncomfortable or something - any ideas????

On the subject of poo - Ari is revolting she loves sitting in poo??? She lies there and coo and giggles esp whenshe's in her bouncer. I've told her it's disgusting and I'm saving the story up for when she starts bringing the boyfriends home

Karina we DTD after about 6wks but not very often as it is so hard to find the time. i was really worried about it after my epi with DS. I would reccommend something like KY around your peri and I even did some peri massage after my shower for a couple of weeks after everything had healed up just to get it back to feeling like normal. As for birth control DH is supposed to be getting the snip but we are using condoms until that kicks in. I have heard that the mini pill is only 85% effective which freaked me out as are condoms apparently??? (I always thought they were 99% oh well)

Cass - those are some great sleeps Oskars doing and yes on being bigger down there I have been doing lots of pelvic floor as apparently ius helps regain some "tone" in that region.

JoMarie - woohoo on the new car!!! I love my 7 seater!!!!

Alana - welcome

Can't remember anymore, talk later when my brain is functioining better