Jo - I know exactly what you mean! Those bloody preachers, and its usually the 'preachers' that will completly ignore you and pick bubs up! Bla people! I am not a people person today!

With the bumbo, Like anything your not leaving them in there for a great deal of time, so they are still getting floor, belly time etc... So i don't think it will have any effect...

I'm going to have a little vent here! My Dp (Izzy's dad) has 2 other boys (3-4) from a previous relationship, now they were doing share care of the boys 7days eacha fortnight untill the other night, when the boys mother rang up and said she can not handle the eldest boy and if tim can have him (she wants to sign full custody over to tim) this part is great!!! the boys desearve better then there mother... what i have found sooo difficult is i was talking to locky last night, and he told me his mummy dosnt want him anymore, and he dosent know why, poor lil kid was so upset and confused - i gave him biggg cuddles and told him his mummy loves him very much, and he just shook his head no!!! i'm so sad and angry a little kid can be made to feel like that! its not fair!!!