Morning all thanks so so much for your support.
Vic Cam's issues started before Darc was born, more like when he was born...he is struggling to bond with her, but I think that's because him and I are so different. I talk softly, he can't even whisper he's always loud, i'm gentle, he's rough. He won't be told and doesn't take hints. She just prefers one way, but he doesn;t see he needs to change for her not her for him.
Sara it doesn't matter that you aren;t married, we're all iin the same boat.

Cam's taking a week off. I think that's a good thing, but ATM I'm more comforatble on my own. We have the sleep clinic monday and then counselling on wed. Cam's going to speak to his parents about how he feels today. He wants to take Darcy but I don't want him to. They won't listen to him if she's there. He's also going to get some help. I told him I didn't like him last night and he's been making a huge effort. Even though a nice dinner won't fix the problems, he heard what I said.

That's great Adam has a tooth Vic! Maybe he's like Dylan with his teething....here's hoping.

There are some idiots around aren't there Sara. Was he drunk or just had no idea?

Our Santa was lovely but I'm going to try again today. There's a furniture store with a really funky setting and a free photo so I'll take her there later while Cm speaks to someone.

Thanks agian to you all.