Tara, Emelia was the same in the beginning..she would be fine one minute then the next would act out and do naughty things to get attention which was understandable but very frustrating. we did the praising when she did good things and that made her happy! i did let her get away with alot of things which was a terrible mistake cos now she can be very difficult when im trying to tell her no.
i just had to make sure i involved her in everything i did with Jack as much as i could anyways, now she is a big help...its a hard time but soon it will all come together its just Evie adjusting to the new routines. your only human hun and your doing a wonderful job