Survived lunch...just. DH did a great job defending me and telling her (MIL) to back off when she got too much. Had to laugh, Bethany did lots of grins for FIL but none for MIL!! LOL

Huge problems when we went to settle her to sleep, I put her in another room and tried to keep the routine we had established at home. She cried and I gave her a few minutes before I went in, Well you would have thought I was murdering Bethany or something. "Why are you letting her cry" "Can't you hear her?" and my favourite "you must be really cold hearted to not respond straight away" We explained over and over that we were teaching her to self settle, she was dry and feed and safe, we weren't going to leave her there for hours!! We were leaving her no more than 5 mins!! After awhile I went in to hold her for a bit, I went alone so that Bethany wouldn't get over stimulated (she was already hot and over tired...hello people, cairns wet season heat humidity...turn on the air con!!!) well MIL followed and chatted and chatted and chatted. Grrrrr. Oh well. All over and no crimes committed.