kell.as a parent of more than one child it is hard to entertain the kids and evenly distribute your time,what ever you do,dont feel bad about it,it is great that you have picked up on it.i still find the same thing with the boys and they are bigger,they get there nose out of joint when i seem to be favouring one over the other,when i become aware of it i just go the extra mile to give the other a bit more of my time,sometimes just lots of extra praise is all they need.
linda,you will come to a point when you KNOW that cc is really the only alternative left.i waited till i had 5 months of crap sleep before i came to the decision to do cc.i was really struggling with the idea as i am a big sooky and absolutly crumble when my baby cries,BUT i have to honestly say that i do not regret it one bit.it was only 2 nights of cc and bam!!!!life is so much better for all of us,i cope so much better with my day now and although i have never loved chantelle any less ever.....i dont have that little bit of resentment towards her any longer for making my nights hell.i just enjoy every single second with her.dont feel pressured by my words just listen to yourself..and if you do decide to do cc,,it is absolutly crucial that you do it at tresilian,,,i think that is what it is called in n.s.w.the support will make it all the more easier to deal with and you will feel confident in what you are doing.
nikki