Michelle- Jessica and Lani are sooo alike, I just loved the tantrum story. jess did a similar thing yesterday after swimming over a packet of biscuits. SHe wanted to hold them, and when Jemma picked up the pack she started going crazy, so jemma gave her 2 bikkies and she threw them across the floor. Eventually the box was given to her and she was handing them out to the kids, then she decided she didn't want to share. So the kids tried to take one and the tantrum started again. She ended up going off until we were halfway home and then started again when we got out of the car.

I think that is terrific that you are such good friends with your mum's grp still, it is hard to meet good friends as you get older so that is sooo nice for you and for Jay too. Good luck finding a pgroup for lani.