Kirsty, I meant to say to you, WRT being over your head with two girls, I'm sure it will get easier. The gap between my boys is a bit bigger than your gap, but I have found it has really gotten easier after the first 8 weeks or so. I hope you find this also. Of course every day there is a time where they both want something at the same time and I have to juggle, but I'm getting better at coping (and distracting the boys!!) and they are getting more tolerant and creative at keeping themselves amused (or settling themselves in Tom's case). I think it will continue to get easier in general, but I'm quite sure there will be bad days!!