Kim - I should have added that because Joel is 3 years old I can reason with him whereas Chelsea is only 1 and she will understand the word "no" more than you trying to explain things to her! Sorry, I didn't mean to make you feel bad! If Joel was one I would be saying "no" about a million time a day! I should have said that in my reply earlier, it's still too early for my brain to function reasonably.