1. well ive been super organised and already done my sent those out who have already given things and have ones ready for when ppl do. What i did, ok its a bit naughty i scanned in the prof photo we had done at the hosp. i used photoshop to write on it his name dob, weight, length, time and a generalized comment "Thank you for your kind words and gifts"
i then burnt it onto a cd took it up to the local photo shop and printed 30 copies for $12!
the photographer did thank yous which costs $99 for $30 so quiet happy with myself.

2. i do a bit of both i suppose, if im in the middle of something important (on the loo say) well i wont jump off to his aid! but if im roaming around i will try and settle, sometimes he gets the better of me and i have to let him go for a while.