Thanks for all of your thoughts and well wishes. I dont know how much is related to having twins or not, I think I am getting REALLY scared. I had PND with Bella but did ok with Eithan, but with these 2 it's hard, I will talk to my OB.
Jodi-Thanks for the PM, will get back to you asap.
Annie-Hopefully the grommets will make Alexander feel better. Bella has suspected glue ear and her ear drum is collapsed inwards and still inflamed, but nothing more we can do except for wait. She had a bad hearing test, but we have to wait to oct to test her again before any intervention. How long before he goes in? Is it day surgery?

Chrissy-I cant even imagine how hard things are for you at the moment, but you arent alone, pop on here anytime and let it all out, no matter what is going through your head we are here to listen and understand. Huge hugs.

Happy 2nd Birthday Xander.

Love you all.