AnnaT- You poor thing! Its horrible sometimes I don't think men know exactly how hard work it is on the woman looking after a baby. Its the hardest job I've ever done. I hope you and your Dh sort it all out. Maybe now your giving bubs formula you could go out for a few hours and leave bubs with him and let him see how hard a job you do! As for chucking in the Bfing, you do whatever is going to make you and bubs happy and settled.