Thanks for the thoughts girls - I'm fine with it all, it's other **** getting me down right now.

Chrissy - Hope you are safe from that fire. Bloody arsonists!

AnnaT - I've got a balance translocation of chromosome 1 & 4. It was discovered during a karyotype blood test. I've got no other probs in regards to staying pregs, but any pregnancy with a chromosome imbalance will m/c. In honesty, I would not wish to be induced at 37 weeks, even with SPD - 37 weeks is almost prem... and could easily result in bub having a minor developmental delay (like Xander). Hang in there!

Nessa - I really appreciated the card you sent (and I did thank you). Whilst I can understand where you are coming from after all the effort you put into the cards... I I've always been one to give without expecting in return and I honestly thought the whole reason we were doing the KK thing was to avoid having to send out cards etc to everyone. Those that felt like sending out extras cards, pressies whatever did so. Not trying to be harsh or rude 'cos I really did appreciate the card - but I am the same at Xmas too, I don't rush out to buy a card if I receive one from someone as too me it just seems like you 'forgot' and only doing so 'cos they sent one. Mwah.