Jazmum - I am thinking of you too. By the sounds of it you've given Chloe a long happy life and I can totally understand how hard it is to say goodbye. Let us know what happens.

Cally - We seem to have no set routine for Maddie's day time sleeps. I've just started cutting out her morning sleep that she wanted an hr after getting up!! I'm trying to get her to have a midday nap which is usually for an hr sometimes and hr and a half. If it wasnt a long nap she sleeps late in the day again. We have no set times or anything though, we just seem to take each day as it comes and follow her lead.

Lil Rachee - Oh no thats scary! I'm sorry to hear about that. On the other hand like you said she seems to be doing well in all other areas.

Pregpan - Thats so not fair of your in laws. Its so selfish. I can sympathise because my in laws have a habit of rocking up at a bad time. After your DH has been away they could at least let you have a few days together!

Trillian - I agree some of the best finds are on peoples verges!

Renee - You little match maker! Hope it all works out for them.

MD - I'd still ring sleep school to see what they say.

Leemar - Hope there is a poo tomorrow!!

Yes I changed my username, just for the same reason as many others, being a bit more anonymous iykwim.

I've been experimenting with Maddie. Last night I stretched her out till 7pm before she went to bed, and tonight it was 7.30pm. Going to try keep her up a tad longer in the hope that she sleeps through. Not holding my breath though! Oh where did my little sleeper go!!!?? Lol

I'm booking Maddie in for a term of swimming lessons, do you think its too cold to do during winter? The pool is apparently heated to 30 - 32 deg for the bubs, I guess its just a matter of keeping her warm out of the pool. I really want to get her used to the water. I want to take her to the beach this summer and I want her to enjoy the hotel pools in KL & Penang.