Wedding was fab, had an excellent day. Everything went very smoothy, had a few minor issues like a button came off my dress, the music didnt play, forgot my parents corsages etc etc but we didnt let anything worry us we just went with the flow. We really enjoyed ourselves, and now I am a wifey!! The honeymoon was awesome, & to tell the truth DH (DH, wow so weird!!) & I didnt start to miss M until two days prior to us leaving for home. We were so relaxed about it all, we knew she was in good hands, so we just enjoyed ourselves really. We sent a few txt's to check all was fine now & then. Spent many many days poolside sunbaking and reading, while watching the parents chasing after their toddlers thinking woo hoo for me lol. Mind you couldnt resist playing in the pool on a daily basis with a cute 18 month old dutch girl, she was beautiful, & I now know a few dutch words! When we landed I bawled my eyes out when I saw M, she has grown in that short time. However she just looked at us as if to say oh yeah I remember you, big deal! So I was so glad to see she hadnt worried about us or felt any anxiety. She is now saying duck (in laws have chickens) & yes. We bought so many clothes, designer stuff over there is decently priced & even just non brand stuff is cheap as chips & really good. They have some unusual things that you wouldnt find in boring Perth. Got way too many shoes.
On a crappy note, had a little tiff with the in laws yesterday. They had planned on spending the weekend with us, as in Fri, Sat & Sun. However DH & I wanted to relax with M after not seeing her for almost 2 weeks & just sleep & relax after our flight during the night, as we both didnt sleep at all. So for one that peeved us off but we got on with it. Then however MIL kept saying dont do this, dont do that, she likes this, she doesnt like that, you need to do this & on & on when it came to M. The last straw was when I made M weetbix & MIL stood over me & said no you have made it too runny start again. So i cracked it & said do you think you know my daughter better than me, I am sick of you always undermining me, I've been her mum now for 18 months I think I know what I am doing. Of course I didnt mean for it to come out so *****y but I was tired & grumpy & fed up with her. So they basically packed up & went home. So I will speak to her tomorrow & explain how I feel in nicer words, dont want her to think we dont appreciate all they do for M & us & especially for taking M while we honeymooned, but still girls I am so at the end of all this iykwim.
Hope you are all well. What did I miss? Noni loved the wedding pics, glad to see you had a nice day. Congrats on the new lounge. How are all the preggie mummies & has Ange popped yet? Rainy hope all is going well with your precious new bundle.
Exciting news, I have stopped the pill so hopefully things will get back to normal asap as we want another one to come along.
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