Amy - I would rather know, as there is every chance she won't be and then you don't have to stress at all. So I would be going into it being optimistic that it would be nothing but doing it just to rule something out that could always be there stressing me out in back of my mind. I can understand the other side too, but naturally I tend to want to know as much as I can and am also an optimist so see it more as a rule it out. Not sure if that helps.