As many have said excellent point Rouge!

I have told DP many many many times why I will not allow CIO or have people laugh when DD is upset. Children experience so many new things that often they do not know what to do with the new item that they will cry... I have told DP that yes it is ok for DD to cry (so many people have suggested to him that it is ok for her to cry but they mean CIO... um no!!) so I say to him yes I agree it is ok for her to cry but she needs to know that she is in a loving environment and we are here for her and will help her to process these new things/feeling/experiences.