All i can say is, get some lubricant - it helps.

We dtd 10 weeks pp, i had heaps of stitches and was really scared so i kept avoiding the issue. It actually wasnt as bad as i thought but wasnt exactly pleasent either. We did it more for 'practice' and it was terribly unromantic.

After the 1st time it got better each time but we just took it slow at first for a while.

Have great night