Thanks everyone,

The issue isn't so much in the lube dept more like the outer lip area that has been stitched too far from back to front itms ....... i have a 1cm over lip that wasn't there before ... like a veranda for lack of a better description we couldn't get past the veranda without really intense pain - and me worrying about tearing the stitched area open.

Will i go back to normal? should i just push through the pain barrier at least once? I just feel like such a failure where i have never had a confidence issue before.

Nae