I had second degree tears with all three bubs even though we tried to stop it from happening. With my DS it felt like they had thrown in a couple too many stitches and the scaring felt tight for at least one year, then with DD#1 it felt like they had left out a couple of stitches LOL I often joke that it took them three times to get it right. The best thing to come of this is that my DH has learned to slow down a bit.

I was just remembering when I went to the doctors for the 6 week check up and they said that this is when you usually get your pap smear. I looked at him and said no one is putting anything inside me for a while yet thank you very much. He said thats fine just make an appointment when you feel more comfortable, it took a good few months.